Introduction
Feeling stuck in a never-ending cycle of money stress and unfulfilled dreams? Well, you're not alone. Most people believe that wealth and happiness are reserved for a lucky few. And honestly, are they wrong? The majority of us are trapped in the 9-to-5 grind for what? Basic stability in the future. And for the safety of this steady paycheck, taking risks becomes out of the question, leaving your financial goals like distant mirages.
But what if that's not the whole story? Jim Rohn, our author, sure doesn’t think so. But initially, after dropping out of college, he felt the same frustration – stuck in a low-paying job for six years as an HR manager. And then his fortune changed as he met his mentor, John Earl Shoaff. His life took a total 180 and boom! By 31, he was raking in millions!
If you’re wondering how, we will unveil a clear roadmap for you – 7 proven strategies for building lasting wealth and happiness. Whether your dream is financial freedom, personal fulfillment or both, Rohn's timeless principles have empowered countless people to achieve their goals through hard work, dedication, and discipline.
It's time to build a life of lasting wealth and happiness – one strategy at a time.
Set Clear Goals And Launch Your Dream!
Strategy 2 -Be willing to self-learn
Thinking you need a fancy degree to get rich is like thinking you can only learn languages in school. Countless polyglots, like the late Nelson Mandela, learned new languages through personal initiative. As they say, “Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.” You can learn about money and business on your own in four easy ways!
First, ‘Reflect on Your Daily Grind’ – Take 30 minutes daily to rewind your day. As Rohn says, “good time to reflect is at the end of major periods such as a week, a month, or a year. At the end of the week take a few hours for reflection to think about the events of the past seven days. At the end of a month, take a day. And at the end of a year, take a week.” Identify what worked well and what flopped in as much detail as you can. Learn from both, and adjust your approach for future success. Got it?
Second, ‘Mine Knowledge Gems’ – Dive into inspiring books by successful individuals like Napoleon Hill's classic autobiography "Think and Grow Rich". Video and audio recordings can prove to be great learning strategies and gain valuable insights. In general, self-help and personal growth books are great for this.
Third, ‘Seek Mentorship, Even if it Costs’ – That one person you think is killing it? Invite them to dinner! Even if it burns a hole in your pocket! Use the opportunity to ask insightful questions. Learn about their wealth-building strategies.
Fourth, ‘Observe and Absorb’ – Attend talks and programs hosted by successful individuals. Watch their behaviour, body language, and communication style. Adopt their positive habits.
And remember to invest in yourself! Dedicate daily time, say half an hour, to learning and allocate a portion of your income to acquire knowledge. You’ll reap results over time, making you wealthy and successful.
So, that’s all about self-learning. Now, let’s tackle how you can make your journey as smooth as possible!
Get rid of barriers holding you back
Imagine yourself standing at a vast, unexplored landscape. This landscape represents your potential. Right now, you might be standing on a small, familiar path, a path defined by self-limiting beliefs like "I'm not smart enough" or "I don't have what it takes to succeed." These beliefs act like fences, keeping you from venturing out and exploring the vast possibilities that lie beyond. But the truth is, the entire landscape is yours to explore.
A guy says, “I’ve got ten years’ experience. I don’t know why I’m not doing better.” Ten years in the same place isn't experience; it's stagnation. Growth comes from innovation, not repetition. Ask yourself: have you evolved, or simply revolved? Most of us focus on changing our circumstances instead of changing ourselves. For example, imagine a raise as a fruit growing on a tree. Negotiating or striking might get you a small promotion but it’s like shaking the tree to get a few fruits. Instead, nurturing the tree – your skills and performance – leads to a continuous harvest of opportunities and advancement. People will come looking for your talents. So, if you’re ready to unlock your potential, start by removing these three roadblocks:
First, ‘Ditch Procrastination – the act of putting things off, even though you know you should do them’ – Self-improvement requires consistent action. Don't put off the hard stuff and let it accumulate – tackle it head-on! Procrastination only hinders your progress. Second, ‘Stop Blaming’!When things go wrong, blaming others feels easier than owning up to it. But blaming others does nothing for your growth! Instead, own your mistakes, learn from them, and move forward. Third, ‘Drop the Excuses’.Excuses like "I can't help it" are self-defeating. Take responsibility for your choices and actions. You have the power to change.
Remember – The biggest challenge you have to deal with is your own self-doubt and laziness. Conquer it in small steps. Want to eat healthy? Start with a simple, achievable win: pack a single, healthy breakfast this week. This small victory fuels your motivation and makes tackling bigger changes, like adding veggies to lunch, feel less daunting. Apply this approach to any area you want to improve and conquer challenges!
The 70/30 rule
Do you fear tax season? Paperwork piles, confusing math, and a big chunk of money vanishing into the bureaucratic black hole - sound familiar? Many people feel the same!
You know what could help with that? Shifting your mindset towards taxes can significantly improve your financial outlook. How? Well, our attitude towards money matters. So, begin by being a “happy taxpayer.” Instead of feeling victimized or cursing the government, think of taxes as an investment for a better future. Paved roads, clean water, and vibrant communities – these are returns on your contribution, not just deductions. It's a trade-off: some of your income, and in exchange you get to enjoy all the awesome stuff taxes pay for - parks, libraries, safe neighborhoods.
But the positive perspective doesn't stop there! Every purchase injects money into the economy, supporting businesses and jobs.
Now let’s unlock the full potential of what’s left over after taxes - your net income! We'll set sail with the powerful 70/30 rule to help you chart a course towards financial freedom.
Picture your income as a neatly divided pie. The bigger slice, 70%, represents your everyday essentials and desires - the rent you pay, the healthy groceries you buy, or even that entertainment subscription that you can’t live without.
Consider the remaining 30%. This portion is about looking ahead and giving back. The first 10% is your chance to make a difference. Donate it to a cause close to your heart, be it environmental protection, animal welfare, or anything that aligns with your values. This slice leaves a sweet taste of positive impact on the world around you.
The next 10% is for securing your future. Think of it as the "rainy day" slice. Set it aside in savings, watching it grow year after year and providing a safety net for any unexpected storms life might throw your way. Knowing you have this cushion allows you to relax and savour the present with greater peace of mind.
Finally, the last 10% is all about investing in yourself. This doesn't just mean property, stocks and bonds. Use it to learn a new skill that sparks your passion, maybe even turn a hobby into a side hustle.
Now, anything that you do will require careful time management. So let’s learn more about it!
Carefully schedule your time
Choose your circle wisely
Ever hung with "chill" folks who skip workouts and indulge in spontaneous splurges? Chances are, their habits might rub off on you, impacting your choices. And that's the light stuff. The real challenge arises when friends indulge in negativity. Like quicksand, surrounding yourself with lies and deceit can slowly numb your moral compass. You might start justifying their actions, even subconsciously adopting them yourself. Scary, right?
But here's the good news: you're in control! How? Take a moment to audit your social circle.
Start by reflecting on who are your key allies. Are they lifting you up or holding you back?
Among those relationships, identify the "energy vampires" – the destructive kind, in your life. Cutting ties clean might be necessary with them. If not, opt for Limited Association and minimize contact. Remember that casual connections that drain your time deserve re-evaluation too. For example, a friend who constantly complains and brings you down without making any efforts to improve their situation could be considered an energy vampire draining your positive mindset.
Once you've cleared the negative space, now it is time for the good stuff! Expanded Association with those who inspire you will help you grow for better. Seek out individuals with discipline, positive mindset, and a drive for success. Sign up for a cooking class, join the local hiking group, or a book club! You'll find yourself connecting with awesome people who'll help you grow!
Follow these hacks and you’ll find someone who can elevate your journey to building wealth. This wealth can bring happiness, right?
Money can’t buy happiness!
Ever seen someone who seems to "have it all" - the mansion, the fancy car, the jet-setting lifestyle - yet they radiate an emptiness you can't quite place? It's the "more, but not enough" trap. More doesn’t always mean happier.
The age-old saying "money can't buy happiness" gets thrown around a lot. But let's be honest, haven't we all secretly wondered if a bigger bank account might just solve all our problems? Yet, reality paints a different picture. Imagine some person who wants to be a sculptor, but doesn’t have the natural talent. He gets obsessed with acquiring more and more expensive tools. Would these tools magically translate into breath-taking masterpieces? Not likely! Similarly, wealth is simply a set of tools, incapable of fundamentally changing your character or inner satisfaction.
The point is if your insecurities or unhappiness stem from deeper issues, simply throwing money at them won't make them disappear. It might even worsen them, creating a dependence on external validation through possessions.
Like every story has two sides, this theory of “money can’t buy happiness” has a positive side too. Cultivating rich experiences now means joy stays with you, regardless of your bank balance. And how do you cultivate those experiences? Enter the “two-quarter mentality.”
Shoaff, Rohn’s mentor, explained the “two-quarter mentality” by asking him to picture a shoesmith shining his shoes flawlessly. Next, Shoaff asked him to think what he would pay as a tip. A quarter of the total cost or two quarters? Tip a single quarter, you save money. But unease lingers. On tipping two quarters, you feel generous and confident, like you're on top of the world!
This "two-quarter mind-set" isn't just about tipping. It's about choosing generosity in everyday life. One of Rohn’s students was a dad who always reluctantly doled out concert tickets for his daughters. Stuck in a "one-quarter" mentality, he missed out on the joy of giving. But inspired by Rohn’s seminar, he surprised them with the tickets, a true "two-quarter" move. It wasn’t too costly for the dad (he had a decent income) but the end result? Happy daughters and a dad basking in their excitement.
And that gives us our final and most important lesson - “true wealth often lies in feeling rich, not just being rich.”
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Summary
Forget instant riches and fleeting happiness! The real treasures lie in the daily grind. Success isn't some mythical beast - it's the result of a few simple habits, consistently practiced through the power of discipline and planning.
Remember Rohn’s words: “Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom. You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.”