Trauma is like a scratch on the soul, a sad song stuck on a loop, and a memory etched in a mind full of pain. The trauma caused by the weight of a war is easy to imagine. War veterans coming back with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) find it difficult to lead to a normal life. They become strangers in their own lives.
But trauma isn't always about bombs and bullets. It comes in many forms, disguised as seemingly minor events. We don’t even realize some of them. A critical parent's words, a car accident, even a nasty breakup - all these can leave their mark. Which is what the focus of this book is. “The Body Keeps the Score” by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk is about how our bodies process trauma. It explains everything: what trauma is, where it comes from, and how to treat it. We'll explore what makes trauma haunt us and the tools to finally turn off that sad record on repeat. The concepts and strategies in the book are a result of four decades of studying the impact of trauma on childhood brain development and emotional regulation. So, it’s safe to say that it is difficult to find someone more qualified than Dr. Bessel to understand the scientific and personal impact of trauma.
So, let's delve into this vital topic.
Summary
Trauma may leave deep scars, but our brains and bodies have a remarkable capacity for healing and adaptation. With the right tools and support, it's possible to rewrite the narrative of our past experiences and reclaim control over our lives.Techniques like mindfulness, building strong support networks, EMDR therapy, yoga, and even new approaches like neurofeedback can all be powerful tools for trauma survivors. These tools help individuals understand, manage, and ultimately recover from their traumatic experiences.
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About the Author
Bessel van der Kolk MD spends his career studying how children and adults adapt to traumatic experiences, and has translated emerging findings from neuroscience and attachment research to develop and study a range of treatments for traumatic stress in children and adults.
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