Hey there, sister! Welcome to the start of something amazing - your very own radical awakening. We’re thrilled you're here. We're about to embark on an adventure together, just you and us. An adventure of rebirth!
Let's talk about what you're getting into. Ever wondered why so many of us are obsessed with finding "the one" or why we feel like failures if we're not perfect moms? We're going to tackle all of that and more. We're diving deep into the raw, sometimes uncomfortable truths about being a woman in today's world. We'll look at how society has shaped us, often in ways we don't even realize. We'll explore the lies we've been told about love, marriage, motherhood, and even what it means to be "nice." It’ll get all those angry, sad, or confused feelings out. And that's okay! In fact, it's more than okay - it's part of the process.
By the end of this, you'll be ready to embrace your true self. Not the version of you that your parents, friends, or society expects, but the real, authentic you. How cool is that?
P.S: Whether you're a woman or man, you've just taken the first step on an incredible journey. Let's do this together!
Summary
You can’t tell yet, but just by being here, you’ve already become a whole new person. You’ve collected tons of insights, and you are aware. That’s all you need. They’ll guide you through new emotional spaces. As Tsabary puts it, “Before you know it, you will begin to make new choices, and create new destinies for yourself.” All the best!
You’re Asleep in the Matrix
Let's talk about something that affects all of us women, whether we realize it or not. Expectations! We're living in a world that's been shaping us since before we were born, and it's time we took a closer look at what's really going on.How about we start with a story? When Trista was about four years old, she broke her favorite doll, which she had named after herself and cared for like a baby. She was heartbroken and cried for...
The Many Faces of the Ego
At this point in the journey, you might have started wondering if you're living authentically. Just this question is a turning point! Congratulations! You’ve begun seeking authenticity.Our journey into authenticity often starts with confronting our ego - the protective masks we wear to navigate the world. These masks, or facades, are coping mechanisms we've developed, often in response to childhood experiences. Let's explore some of these faces of the ego. Starting with the Givers. Givers give. And there are 4...
We’re Surrounded by the Fog
Women and children often live with a subconscious wariness around men. We grow up knowing men are in charge, and with that comes an awareness of potential threat. It's not paranoia — it's an instinct honed by countless instances of violation against us. This awareness shapes our psyche in profound ways. And leads to ‘the fog’.What is the fog, you ask? Consider it a state of unawareness that clouds our perception of reality. In this fog, we often can't see...
Patriarchy and the Fog
So, Shefali says patriarchy is like a factory – a fog creating factory. It's the system that keeps women trapped in a haze of expectations, limitations, and fear.Tsabary shares her experiences growing up, and it's not an easy read. By age twelve, she'd already faced unwanted attention and abuse from men, including relatives. Her unique eye color and early physical development made her a target. And she felt she couldn't speak up. Why? Because she thought she needed to protect...
Get Aware!
Alright! Your Radical Awakening! You know you have the masks of ego on and that you're in the fog. You've realized it all. Now what? Well, it's time to wake up, and it's may not be pretty. As Tsabary puts it, "Awakening is a beast." Why? Because it means facing truths we've been happily ignoring. For many women, this awakening often hits in their forties. You've ticked all the boxes - education, marriage, maybe kids - and suddenly you're watching...
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About the Author
Dr. Shefali received her doctorate in clinical psychology from Columbia University. Specializing in the integration of Western psychology and Eastern philosophy, she brings together the best of both worlds for her clients. She is an expert in family dynamics and personal development, teaching courses around the globe. She has written seven books, three of which are New York Times best-sellers, including her two landmark books The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family.
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