You wake up each morning feeling good about yourself, exactly as you are. No more stressing about fitting some impossible mold. Sounds like a thing from a parallel universe, does it? But, it could be “our” world. Yes, you heard that right! That's exactly what Brené Brown talks about in her book, "The Gifts of Imperfection." It's a guidebook for letting go of who you think you’re supposed to be and instead embracing who you truly are. The things we...
The path to authentic living
All of us want to live a life on our own terms, to be our true selves without holding back. It is called living "wholeheartedly." 100% authentic! But the road to being authentic can be bumpy. Know why? Because we get caught up in trying to be perfect, not real! Thanks to pressure from society and that voice in our heads telling us we're not good enough. It's like wearing a mask all the time!It’s “liberating” to feel authentic. We’re...
The trap of chasing perfection
Here’s a simple task for you to do: Search “quotes on perfectionism” on Google. Google returns a chorus of "dare to be imperfect!" Yet, most of us crave perfectionism. Ever thought why?Well, it’s because of shame! Hear us out: Perfectionism is a toxic relationship with yourself. It tricks you into thinking your worth comes from outside approval, leaving you constantly chasing an impossible ideal. Then the shame of being imperfect whispers in our ear, urging us to create an image...
Shift your view and find your "why"
It’s official: Life throws punches, and nobody enjoys getting knocked down. But there's a secret weapon to bouncing back: it’s by building resilience. Brené’s research revealed a surprising key – having a sense of purpose, like a belief in something bigger than ourselves can create resilience! It may be faith that gives you strength, or a deep connection to others that makes you feel like you're part of something important. This purpose, meaning, or perspective acts like a compass, guiding...
The power of “being grateful”
Joyful people are grateful people. Do you agree? Well, why wouldn’t they be? After all, they have all of that goodness to be grateful for. But that's not how it is. See, we assume that if someone is joyful, they must have many good things in their life, so of course they would feel grateful. But, the truth is it's not that joyful people naturally become grateful, but rather that people who practice gratitude become joyful. Brené says "Without exception,...
The “need of intuition” over “want of certainty”
Do you also have that nagging feeling in your gut, that inexplicable hunch – which you often dismiss as mere "intuition," and prefer logic and reason? But what if intuition has more to it? The battle between intuition and reason is age-old. But new research suggests they're more like partners in crime. Intuition, it turns out, is reason's fast-paced, behind-the-scenes accomplice.Imagine your brain as a giant filing cabinet. When you encounter something new, your brain goes into overdrive, sifting through...
Unleash your creativity and ditch the comparison trap
As a child, Brené grew up in New Orleans. Her house overflowed with artistic chaos – mismatched art, homemade clothes, and experimental cooking. Creativity wasn't a choice, it was life. Then came the move to Houston, where homes looked like hotel lobbies and school became a place for flaunting cute clothes brought from malls , so no more space for homemade clothes. This was difficult to hold anymore. Slowly, but surely, creativity seeped out of her life under the pressure...
Get some play and rest time
Have you ever stumbled upon a concept so foreign it leaves you feeling completely lost? During her research, Brené talked about people living wholeheartedly "having fun", a phrase that sent her colleague’s brain into a tailspin. "What fun things? Crafts? Sports? Hobbies?" her colleague stammered, desperately trying to decipher this strange code. “It’s play! Nothing organized” Brené realized later after digging around to find a proper word.Dr. Stuart Brown, a renowned psychiatrist and clinical researcher, argues that play isn't optional....
Befriend anxiety
We have advice for you: Be anxiety-aware, if not anxiety-free! What’s the difference? Being anxiety-free sounds heaven, but it's not realistic or even necessary. Instead, aim to be anxiety-aware. This means recognizing anxiety when it shows up, understanding its purpose, and not letting it take the driver's seat in your life. Now, we just said being anxiety-free is not necessary. What gives?Allow us to explain: Imagine you're giving a presentation at work. It's normal to feel some butterflies in your...
Your Talents Are The Ultimate Self-Expression
"That's a nice hobby, but when are you going to get a real job?" "You're not talented enough. Maybe you should just give up.""There are already too many out there. You'll never make it.""Be realistic. That dream is just not practical."If you live in this world, there’s a very small chance that you haven’t heard these taunts or their versions at some point. The world can be a harsh place, with no place for doing something we genuinely love.See ,...
Being uncool is the new cool
Imagine life without laughter, song, and dancing – like a black and white movie with no sound. Pretty boring, right? Well, these things are like magic sprinkles for our lives!Laughter makes everything funnier, even our own silly mistakes. Songs become our personal soundtrack, to cheer us up, calm us down, or remind us we're awesome. And dancing? It's like being the star of your own musical, shaking off worries and feeling totally free. Embracing laughter, song, and dance isn't just...
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Summary
Y'know, the title isn't 'The Burden of Imperfection' - it's 'The Gifts of Imperfection'! This book is your permission slip to embrace every wonderful, weird, and "imperfect" part of yourself. By accepting your imperfections, you're not settling for less - you're opening the door to a richer, more authentic life. So go ahead, be gloriously imperfect AND authentic!
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About the Author
Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor at the University of Houston, where she holds the Huffington Foundation Endowed Chair at the Graduate College of Social Work. She also holds the position of visiting professor in management at the University of Texas at Austin McCombs School of Business.
Brené has spent the past two decades studying courage, vulnerability, shame, and empathy. She is the author of six #1 New York Times bestsellers and is the host of two award-winning podcasts, Unlocking Us and Dare to Lead.
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